In this edition of Dragonflies and Leadership Stories I wish to highlight how, when we think something, the content thereof projects onto our futures. A friend has a saying "fake it, until you make it". In other words even if you do not feel happy, try to act in a manner that at a minimum seems like happiness.
The photo of the "Koru" that I photographed in New Zealand, is one of the many metaphors that I used in my learning scaffold. I referred to the Dragonfly and Spiderweb in a previous edition as healing metaphors. It represents New Beginnings, Growth & Harmony. This is a important foundation to managing my thoughts.
Building my learning scaffold practice, is no easy task. I tend to be over sensitive to everything that I see, hear and experience. This means that managing my thoughts is a little like herding cats into one room. The fact is, a different world is only a thought away.
I am equally deliberate about removing items in my scaffold, when I am strong enough as I do not want to rely on these metaphors like "lucky charms" to get me by. The objective is to make something different possible by directing my thinking. This is not intended to be an alternative religion. I have the power to give meaning to something, it does not have power over me.
Writing poems is another means of developing my learning scaffolds. They represent a composition of my thoughts, like a fountain flowing from my subconscious. This too is a reflective practice as mentioned in the previous blog on learning scaffolds. When I read the poems later, I realize that they were often prophetic and did not represent what I felt at the time. I wrote the following poem in 2010, when I was like a pendulum, vacillating between looking forward to an alternative life to the one that I was leaving behind, followed by a sense of deep isolation and extreme sadness.
I immigrated to another universe, or am I seeing everything in its
Taking every step in silence.
Reading the moment and acting based on what is kind.
The meaning of healing is not about reconnecting to restore what was,
reconnecting is the homecoming only to gradually transport away from and to everything.
Transient is my existence and I am leaving behind love.
No guilt, no resentment.
Painful events from an existence worth living only transport me to
walk among the stars.
They are no longer reasons to mourn.
I want to inhale all this splendour.
Never before did I want to live this life as much as this moment.
Many lives away from previous sorrow I stretch towards Grace.
- Start building your learning scaffolds with deliberate thoughts. What you think today will take place in time to come.
- A cautionary note though, that the intent of what you harbour is either your own poison or healing potion.